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Friday, September 24, 2010

Perfection

My friend posted this on facebook and I thought it was really good! I, like I am sure everyone has struggled with this more then once in their life! I wanted to share it! Here it is!

"Perfection" is a hideous monster with a really beautiful face. And chances are you're infected. The good news is, there is a cure.

Be real.
Embrace that you have weakness. Because everybody does. Embrace that your body is not perfect. Because nobody's is. Embrace that you have things you can't control. We all have a list of them.

Here's your wake-up call:

You aren't the only one who feels worthless sometimes.

You aren't the only one who took your frustrations out on your children today.

You aren't the only one who isn't making enough money to support your lifestyle.

You aren't the only one who has questions and doubts about your religion.

You aren't the only one who sometimes says things that really hurt other people.

You aren't the only one who feels trapped in your marriage.

You aren't the only one who gets down and hates yourself and you can't figure out why.

You aren't the only one who hates your body.

You aren't the only one that can't control yourself around food.
Be bold about your weaknesses and you will change people's lives. Be honest about who you actually are, and others will begin to be their actual selves around you. Once you cure yourself of the disease, others will come to you, asking if they can just "talk". People are desperate to talk. Some of the most "perfect" people around you will tell you of some of the greatest struggles going on. Some of the most "perfect" people around you will break down in tears as they tell you how difficult life is for them. Turns out some of the most "perfect" people around us are human beings after all, and are dying to talk to another human being about it.

You'll love them for it. And you'll love yourself even more.

Let's not forget this quote: "I went out to find a friend and could not find one there. I went out to be a friend, and friends were everywhere." Somebody who is being a friend doesn't spread "Perfection". Somebody who is being a friend spreads "Real". Then, and only then, can we all grow together.

This is only a small portion of the whole article, you can read the rest at the following link

5 comments:

Chelsi said...

absolutely LOVE this!!! The whole time I am reading down the list, I am thinking to myself, yes to all of it. Go away perfection, we hate your stinkin guts.

Deryck & Bree said...

Umm... Can you at least ask before you post half naked pictures of me on your blog!!! hahahahaha! This I love this, and I love you for blogging about it, its a good one!

Jamilla said...

This was a PERFECT post! We all need it to hear it. Thanks, Chels!

Brenda Joy said...

So good! Thanks for sharing! I needed it!

Anonymous said...

Chels! I loved this. I had to post it to Facebook. I'm glad you blogged it. Love ya and miss ya!